The Story

Posted by – August 20, 2009

1) Yes, that girl who emailed me is crazy. I added her as a friend and then it turned out I was her only friend. It was a brand new account. Navy explained to me that that’s because she was harassing everyone in his life to such an extent that he raised the issue with Facebook and they canceled her old account.

2) Yes, there is a kid in Germany. There’s a lot more to the story than that, but I’m leaving it out because it’s his life and not mine.

A lot of you told me to trust my gut. My gut says this is a good guy. When I asked him if he had a kid in Germany, he straight-up said he did and then explained the situation, and I didn’t get the feeling he was being sketchy about it. And as I mentioned before, it’s not a serious relationship and I don’t think either of us is looking for it to turn into a boyfriend/girlfriend thing or marriage or anything. Obviously I would not want to have even a casual relationship with someone who is a total creep and knocking girls up right and left and then not returning their phone calls. I don’t get the sense that that’s what’s going on here. I like him and he’s a lot of fun — and I’m definitely not looking to get pregnant with his child anytime soon.

Although I have to tell you guys that Leo got the condom out of the trash can last night and we caught him hanging out with it in the living room. I was like, “Oh, yeah. Leo’s trained to do that. Later he puts it in the refrigerator so I can take it to the sperm bank and have your child.” And then we laughed about that for like an hour.

  • Anonymous
    The mother was not the one writing the email.
  • Donkey Punch
    The condom was because you were making balloon animals, right? Please tell me that.

    He is a military guy? Bad news.
  • woohoo
    Holy shit.. Yeah be careful.. And I'm just gunna do this all at once and say I'm so sorry about diabetes.. I have hypoglycemia so I'm on the other end.. It sucks..
  • Cindy
    Question remains. How did she find out about you?
  • Cindy
    Sasha...as you said there is more to the story that you aren't sharing with the public...(good). Again, you are intelligent and have good instincts, just follow them. We all have pasts and have all made huge mistakes, we learn from them and go on. Maybe this is his single biggest mistake...and for all of you out there who want to say "there is a child involved", sometimes due to wacko moms the father doesn't get to be a father at all.

    Ewww.....and I let Leo lick my face!!!! LOL...
  • Um, Sasha pointed out several times that they have a casual thing. He doesn't have to deliver a full report about his life. She asked, he answered, she feels she can believe him. That's all. End of story.
  • Miranda
    Good point Inesita. I totally agree.

    Sasha, just have fun, that's all you need right now. Girls are crazy and Military men have no choice but to be responsible for their actions (especially impregnating someone... leads to a lot of counseling, bloods tests and mandatory child support) so really, he's not a creep.
  • Shelly
    Well at least you confronted him about it. And it's a good thing your gut tells you he is a good guy. You can enjoy the time you spend with him worry free. Good for you :)
  • Sharon
    Leo f’ing rocks!!!!
    (And don’t listen to the haters. If you trust him, that’s all that matters.)

    P.S. It appears that I typed in my e-mail incorrectly in my previous comment. Feel free to delete it rather than publish!
  • Rachel
    Agreed, Leo DOES rock! Though I am a little grossed out, haha!

    I also agree to ignore the negative nancy's. It's your life, you should trust YOUR gut and have a little fun while you are at it. ;)
  • Joy
    Wow, now I understand why she doesn't want to share about her relationships.

    Yeah she asked for advice, but some people are being down right hideous in their comments. Good grief, give her a break. We don't know the whole story, and people are basically categorizing him as a sleeze bag.
  • Anonymous
    run. away.
  • Sara
    Sorry Sasha, crazy girls will say anything. It's really sad how some women won't let go.
  • court
    Wow this guy seems really sketchy.. the fact that he is calling his ex crazy and he DOES have a kid in germany he failed to tell you about until he was confronted just seems really shady. Enjoy your hook up I guess.. it sounds like he has a lot more to hide than just the one kid.
  • cura animarum
    No doubt. Why did he have a relationship with such an unstable individual anyway? Anyone who fosters illegitimate European children is shady in my books. Be careful...
  • Anne
    True that.
  • Klipper
    Yeah, I think she just has bad radar when it comes to guys. I mean, of course the guy's gonna label the ex crazy. What else is he gonna say.. that's he's a douche? Of course not. The ex, or whomever it was, gave Beet the heads up and she chose to believe the guy (which I'm betting most women would initially) so, in the end, if he turns out to be a dick then it's on Beet. People are often ignore the smart/obvious choice because they're blinded by feelings.
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